Auld Lang Syne

This year is coming to a close and I am enjoying a few days off (in a row!). I wanted to write a few quick words talking about the past year and this blog.

It has been an up and down year for me. I have grow a lot and started a blog that people read (which is exciting!). I have endured quite a bit of hardships but I have stayed the course and am pushing through.

Thank you all who read this. I started this blog for me to express myself and to give encouragement for others. Seeing people reading this is quite invigorating.

Thank you to my wife and daughters who are my world.

Thank you for awesome co-workers and a great boss.

Thank you to innumerable friends that have helped me.

Thank you to the Brony community this year for giving me an outlet for my fandom.

Thank you for my family.

I have enjoyed this year greatly but will be glad to see it over and have a fresh start. My year next year be great, dear reader. And, if it isn’t. Grab a plush, pastel coloured pony and maybe that will help.

Short post 5.

It is coming closer to the end. I am almost through this holiday. The light is at the end of the tunnel. I have today and tomorrow to get through and I will be feeling a lot better. The new year is coming up and I am hopeful, something new for me. Now, back into the breach that is retail.

The call.

So I have been waiting to write this from the moment it happened. It was a busy day at work, being 3 days befoire Christmas and we are busy. I am in the back room running stock. I have been sick all day and have been keeping to the back room. The phone rings and I recieve the following call.

Me: “Thank you for calling [large retail game store], this is [my name] how can I help you?”

Caller (woman in 30s-40s): “Yes I just wanted to let you know that I called you guys earlier and I believe I spoke to you” (I have been at work an hour at this point) “in fact I am pretty sure it was you and I had you read off your sale items to me. I then found the sale item that I wanted and decided that my son and I would come get the skinny jeans that are on sale.”

At this point I put the phone on speaker as one of my assisant managers and another employee are in the room and they start listening. The woman has not stopped yet.

“Well when we got to the store, I sent my son in to get them and they told him they were $39.99 and not $29.99 like you said in the ad this morning and Now I am out side your store upset that you would tell me a promotion that wasn’t going and and I need to know what you are going to do about it? You really should be more careful about what you tell people over the phone. Some people don’t listen and you should do a better job informing them of the current promotions. I am now parked outside your store and I want you to fix this.”

At this point, she has talked for about 5 minutes on the phone, clearly upset, wanting me to fix her  problem. My two employees are in shock, waiting for me to answer as they have no clue what is going on.

Me: “Well ma’am, I am sorry to here that, but here at [large VIDEO GAME retailer] we do not sell skinny jeans, nor do we plan to do so”

At this point my employees hear me say “skinny jeans” and bust out laughing so loud, I have to put my hand over the phone.

Caller: “Who do you think…wait who is this?”

Me: “This is [large VIDEO GAME retailer], a video game retailer, not a clothing store”

Caller: “Oh, this isn’t [large clothing store that sounds nothing like my store]?”

Me: “No ma’am.”

Caller: “Oh” *click*

My employees are trying not to roll on the floor they are laughing so hard. I looked at them and said, “God help whoever that woman does talk to.”

Thinking about it afterward, I feel she should have apologized to me but instead she hung up. Good luck lady, I hope you find your peace in your heart to be nicer to people who are probably just making an honest mistake.

Short 4.

I am nearing the mid point of these last 2 weeks of retail bliss.  I find myself sick with a cold. Just what I wanted for Christmas. I now cannot take off work, even if I tried my hardest. Once more my body fails me. I will snuggle with a plush, cough into a tissue, and drink water until I have to go in.

Losing humanity.

I Hate these stories. This fuels me to write more. I am breaking my short posts run for this story. This is why I write this blog. This is why I ask people to share it. I have tried to make it to the pony blogs, Facebook, Twitter and more and I ask for continued support in reaching out.

http://www.equestriadaily.com/2014/12/brony-takes-his-own-life-due-to-online.html#idc-container

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2877190/Teenage-Little-Pony-fan-posted-heartbreaking-YouTube-video-APOLOGISING-internet-trolls-tormented-days-threw-train.htm

I know what it is like to be bullied and teased. I know what its like to be relentlessly picked on. I have been there, and sometimes I am still there. This is a terrible thing that has happened. I wish I could have had a chance to talk to him. I can do the only 2 things I know to do.

First.

“My heart has joined the Thousand, for my friend stopped running today.”

Richard Adams, Watership Down

Adam, I did not know you. We never met, and I am sad that we didn’t. What has happened to you is a terrible action taken by horrid, selfless people. A quote that I read when I was young sums it up for me, I wore, and still wear, it like a badge of honor.

“Youth is cruel”

Second, if you know someone who needs help, please speak out. Do not be silent. There are enough voices that curse and spit vile cruelties. If you don’t know how to talk to them, just listen. If you can’t listen, find someone who will listen to them. I offer myself for those who need help.

I started this Blog for me. I see a way to help others. I will take helping others any day of the week.

Hug a pony my friends.

Rest in Peace Adam Smith.